Estimates published by the media and other career-related sources agree on one fact: The job search process is bound to be a long, enduring exercise that could take between six months to a year. What you do during this period--aside from looking for work and going on interviews--will determine the likelihood of being perceived as a strong candidate and how confident you remain during your job search.
Let me set up the scenario to make my point. It has been three months since you started looking for work. You have submitted resumes left and right and have been networking and asking friends and acquaintances for job leads. So far, these efforts have yielded minimal results. Perhaps you had a couple of interviews that did not go forward. Or perhaps you received the dreaded, "thanks but no thanks" letter. At this point you could be feeling frustrated, less confident or angry about the economy, the companies you are interested in or both.
How do you, then, find the strength to attend another networking event, career fair or informational interview while hiding all these ill feelings created by the job search process you are starting to hate?Imagine you are at a networking event and a colleague asks you (maybe not in these exact words), "what have you been doing since you became unemployed?."
Think about your answer and write it down. In part two, we will discuss suggested ways to address this simple yet critical issue.